^Technically it was Heaven that ruined Eve's life (if you're referring to the whole "kicked out of Eden" thing)
Possibly Adam as well if he was abusive
Lilith and Lucifer were just trying to free Eve from slavery (since Eve literally didn't have free will), I'd hope she'd be smart enough to actually understand that
For that matter I also hope Lilith won't be reduced to some damsel in distress by being revealed to have been kidnapped